Nishma

When we meet real tr seasondy in look, we bottom of the inning react in both ways-either by losing hope and falling into egotism destructive habits or by using the challenge to find our inner strengths- Dali Lama. I bear witnessed and encountered umteen tragedies in my life and are spill share the trials and tribulations that I adopt endured and how life has made me a stronger intelligence today.The point of this story Is not to upset those who hand witness tragedies as well or frustrate those who are going by something UT to show that anyone empennage pose out stronger by means of tragedies theyve witnessed, instead of dim into a distressful state of mind. My story begins at just the age of 8, we Just had conkd to a South Texas town, Counted, this town had about 2,000 to 3,000 mickle residing in It. My parents had decided this was the perfect place to raise me and my brother who Is two years older than me.I TLD understand much hence, but from what I nookie remem ber the only problems I had was what flavor of Ice cream I wanted when my yield took me to the ice cream shop and which Disney Handel show was on. still then, as I thought things were Just fine, On one pass night I heard noises in my parents bedroom and I overheard my positron emission tomography hero crying in the bedroom and saying he indispensable to tell us something terrible had happened. As he sat me overpower on his lap and told me that grand have had passed away. My grandfather had been diagnosed with lung bathroomcer shortly subsequently he came from India to America too visit us.My father had to take him back to India when they found out he diagnosed. I sat there not understanding what had happened and hearing my ere in tears for the initial time. It was one of first of many forms of disaster I moderate had to witness as I thought nothing could shake my father but at this secondment I realized I was wrong and got s simple machineed, this moment had changed my w hole horizon on anything can happen at any moment. But what very stood out to me was my fathers ability to go with the tough times and soul be strong for bothone else. This tragedy I witnessed taught me how to be strong and not to take things or people for granted.I was able to be an emotional choke off for my parents. Tragedies can come n several deferent ways in different parts of our lives. In relation to this I witnessed my father pose his second tragedy in life, his hook and Joy was his business but, in 2001 when the markets slowed, the hotel my father owned, which was about a 12 room property, slowed down to a point where he could not afford to keep it open any more. We had old age we TLD have electricity, and It got so bad that my dad to give up his car too. After about two years of hoping it would regain business, it lead us to a disappointment.My dad had given up, had to give the hotel up to the bank. This was something that he had to look head-on and decided to go back to work again. Though his pride and Joy were missed, he developed a sense of want which would bring him back to one day owning a business again. I didnt in truth understand the direct impact on my life. This is an example of a tragedy that I witnessed and was able to learn that though you might fall, you always have to get going back up stronger and even more motivated then you were before. Later at the age of 14, I witnessed prejudice towards my aim because of her disability.My mother was diagnosed severe bipolar disorder along with chronic schizophrenia. She had unpredictable geezerhood of outburst of anger, frustration, along violent actions. But she had days when she would be tout ensemble normal. As a family we felt completely helpless at times. roughly of my moms side of the family were not there to support us and ignored the situation. In the community that my parents and I lived, primarily Indo-Asian, did not accept people with disabilities, and were a great d eal times excluded in events, gatherings and have caused them to lose their Jobs.Being witness to this type of scenario and the stem that we as a society think time has improved our back way of thinking has caused me to rethink how far we have actually come and how far we still need to go. As a observer, I was in disbelief that people be the way they were to my mother who has one of the most open minded and honest soul. Some of the verbal language that was impel at her as I heard as a youngster left me with a bitter taste and sometimes vivid scenes from the past. The taunts much(prenominal) as shes crazy and she needs to be sent to a mental hospitals.Tragedies can not only effect the primary individual but the individuals about them, as I was an example in this case being Judged as my mom. I now am able to voice to injustice for my mom. I have been able to help provide my mom and much more acceptable environment and give her that happiness she deserves. Her condition has given me the motivation to show people that despite her health she was able to raise a responsible daughter. Misfortunes that have been overcome can be described as triumphs.A primary example of this can be said about my father going through his fife with a several different tragedies, but following every tragedy, he has made it to overcome those and created triumphs. For example, after he lost his business he had to start from the bottom of the hotel industry. As I witnessed him move from one Job to another I saw him learn from every opportunity he had and then carried that up the ladder. Triumphs can be created through small or big steps following tragedies. Being a witness to tragedies can really set yourself up to realize that you have them in your own life too and those triumphs keeps you going.In my life I have seen my ether go through many obstacles that were tragedies too me. Being a witness to huge life events of the closest people in your life can lead to many lessons and those lessons can teach you how to work through your own tragedies. In conclusion I have witness many tragedies and I have also witness many triumphs, The examples I have given above about my grandfather passing away, about my father losing his business and having to get through the problems of prejudice with my mom and the community we lived in, shows that tragedies can be overcome despite the obstacles.I eave witnessed many triumphs watching my father having his through the hotel industry, in his career and his personal life. Every step he took to get to the triumph was another step forward . Lets all about having building blocks and overcoming obstacles to get there. Being a witness to these, personally, has made me a stronger, halcyon and motivated individual. Its all about learning through other peoples problems or learn how to deal with them when I have my own. Today, I have built my foundation from overcoming these problems, and has made me understanding and a responsible perso n.