Taking Care of Our Elderly

Davis 1 E. Diana Davis ENGL 2010 Professor Asplund 21st September 2012 The Responsibility of Taking make out of Our Elders My grandmother k instantaneouslys a lot intimately how it lifes to be left(p) in a house alone, waiting for someone to assist her to just apprehend out of bed. This Saturday morning I decided to go visit her plot of land my grandfather was at dialysis. She was surprised to hear my voice as she sour her head over my way and smiled. I could hear the sound of easiness in her voice just knowing her granddaughter was here to see about her.My grandmother has been blind since March 2012 she is a diabetic that has had an eye operation to help repair a detached retina that is still healing. In the slow tidy sum shes been dealing with paralysis on her chasten side from a stroke she suffered over twenty historic period ago, and its re everyy nominaten a toll on her health. As I sat bulge beside her with a pen and paper I told her I wanted to sterilise her po int of view on how she feels about being an time-honored individual in this ponderous economy. I needed to know if they were able to hide out all their needs on a fixed income. Did she really feel like her and my grandfathers needs were really being met?As she began to tell me about her fears Davis 2 And concerns my heart sunk and I design to myself, bewilder we really failed to live up to the obligations of taking pity of our elders. As she spoke in her little sweet tone, she made me aware of how hard it is to do simple things like taking a shower, cooking and plain going to the restroom is a hard task to do these days. She say I feel like everyone is too busy to lend a hand, and me and your grandfather dont want to be a consign on you all. I thought to myself as her granddaughter, was I even doing replete?Was the responsibility of taking explosive charge of our elderly been overlooked, or was it being passed down to the few faithful heap who were getting burnt out on the responsibility? My grandparents as parents bared the moral, legal, and ethical responsibilities to care for their children. However, now that my grandparents eat up reached an age where they can no longer look after themselves, the duties of their mature children to support them is less clear. It is therefore only fair to say now that their children are grown up and now their parents have become elderly, they should take up the responsibility to provide a decent life for their parents.While it is not a legal obligation, it is a moral obligation and its prison term to pay forward what is owed to our parents/grandparents. Its our responsibility to help any family process in need. Our family has raised us and helped to survive in this uncertain economy, so why shouldnt we help out when our parents and grandparents reach an age where they need our help? Davis 3 Only one out of in five people takes the needed steps to prepare legally and fiscally for taking care of an incapacita ted parent. Consider this contrast between expectations and reality Only 13 percent of some 4,000 U.S. workers surveyed for the 2011 (Aflac Work Forces Report) believe that the need for long-term care would affect their families. The percentage of adult children providing personal care and/or financial assistance to a parent has more than tripled over the past 15 years, the research group found. Of course, in todays tough economy, it also is common for elderly adults to be supporting their adult children. But in some ways, thats easier to feature Parents often stick out to leave whatever wealth they have to their children anyway.The die hard of wealth from older to younger generation feels natural to many. But with Americans vivacious so much longer now, the younger generation has to do more thinking about how they might care for parents who have exhausted their savings. afterward spending the whole day talking with my grandparents about their concerns I snarl compelled to le nd a hand. I made lunch for them and started to clean the kitchen. By the end of the day the whole house was spotless, and before I left I help my grandfather get my grandmother ready for bed.I have to say I was really exhausted when I finished, but the touch I felt when I saw them smiling and relaxing unitedly was worth a million bucks. As soon as I got home that night, I was determined that I had to help with this situation right away. The first thing to do was to call a family meeting. It was time for everyone to take away Davis 4 together and take up their responsibility to do their part. beginning thing we needed to do is put together a instrument and set it in stone. We all agreed that we would be assigned a day to go and check on our grandparents/parents.This action plan would complicate cooking, cleaning and donating at least a hundred dollars a calendar month to help with their financial needs. So far this is working out great, and all it took was a concerned person to be a good meeter and someone to pull a family together to put a plan in action. By working together as a family it helped to muddle broken relationships and it helped us to accomplished many beautiful things. Im happy to say my grandparents are well taken care now, and years have been added to their life span. Davis 5 Works Cited Http//www. aflac. com/ Aflac_WorkForces_Report 2011